Long distance relationship is like a cage when you are away, then you feel how cute it is, but when the feeling of it comes near, then it is known that this one is a cage only, two people have lost everything in getting something .... when there comes this feeling of losing something, then there comes a time where you hit your mind with the sentence that" I can't go with this thing anymore", but if we move forward by overcoming this sentence we defeat everything and write love in a way of this poem….
कुछ इस तरह से जमाने को हम कायल रखेंगे....
हम दूरियो मैं भी इश्क को हमारे कायम रखेंगे|
जो कहते हैं दूरियो से रिश्ता फीका पड़ जाता है.....
हम उनके सामने हमारे रिश्ते का उदाहरण रखेंगे|
माना की हर रात तुझे अपने सीने से नहीं लगाउँगा....
पर हर रोज़ फ़ोन पे तुझे मैं ही सुलगाँ|
सब कुछ वैसा ही रहेगा ....बस किलोमीटर मैं फरक रहेगा
पर ये दिल-ओ-मीटर हमारा एक दसरे पास ही धड़कता पाया जाएगा
कुछ इस तरह से जमाने को हमर कायल रखेंगे
हम दूरियो मैं भी इश्क को हमारे कायम रखेंगे....
Long distance relationship, his existence may be far, but his heart is close to you and the relationship that remains in it is called long distance relationship.
There are some people who have met before, they liked each other and get into relationship... but due to some reason one person has to go somewhere... Hence they give the name of their relationship as 'long distance relationship'
These are the first kind of people...
The second type of people are those who, thanks to social media meet each other literally for the first time, then one of them travels and goes to meet the other, then because of some genuine reason, some emotional void or else get attach to others and end up calling their relationship as long distance relationships.
Now like every relationship, In the starting phase of a relationship, there is also a honeymoon phase in which everything is good, after sleeping before getting up, we use to talk to them only... Means 24x7 communication, special songs explanation, understanding with huge dedication…after comes a time where we realise our existence in that relationship too, overall there comes a time where we have to fight for ourselves only to keep balance you and your partners existence in your life, Then comes a point where world war starts, not talking for hours, ignoring each other, wandering of mind for someone else and stuff....
Then our mind ends up with a thought 'it's over'....
So darling wait and let's discuss How to keep your long distance relationship safe and secure instead of leaving your partner's hand in between of the race where he/she fighting for you daily in his life.....
So go through these points and vipe away the fog of your mind....
1-Communication Gap: Never let silence come between your relationship to make it silent forever.
Yu khamosh na raha karo acha nahi lgta...
Muhobbat ki baat na sahi koi sikhayat hi krdo.
Kyuki baat hogi to baat banegi... Bigadti hi sahi pr baat to hogi
2-Giving surprise: if you both are in the same country so meeting should be possible 1-2 times in a month because it is very important to come face to face from face time and if it is not possible then you should write a special note for them to tell them How special that person is?What do you feel when we he/she use to be with you?
3-Give them space: Do not always dominate him/her in the name of relationship, nor do so many messages that your partner gets used to it and get up with a mindset that if he does, then why should I…. Make your partner feel free and make them realize that they also have a duty to call or message you, then only that relationship will be both of yours or else in the end you will feel that only you were there in that relationship,
And Yes, send them handwritten letters
You know what when you write a letter you could express all your feelings in that single sheet... because you won't hesitate and just simply kept on writing. So that's the best way to surprise your partner by telling them your feelings frequently.
4-Loyalty is royalty: You know what?If you can not be faithful or because of despair you want someone close to you Certain times or you frequently in a need of intimacy so avoid coming into long distance relationship because what happens that we will be set after sometimes with someone else , but the another person who is loyal to you, if he/she will come to know, swear he won't be able to give the place of yours to any of the other ever in his/her life, for which you will be the only responsible.
Last but not least
5- Stay busy- If you are at home then you will force to talk to your partner, because of this that person will get frustrated and will say that I cannot talk to you all the time because I am at my work.So ya give them space... Don't call or text them frequently otherwise they will start making distance from you and then your long distance will be in distance forever.
Guys Let me tell you one thing...
Love is like life.
Not every turn is easy, there may not be happiness in every turn.
But when we don't leave the hands of life, why should we leave the hands of love?
I hope you Must have got your answer now... So keep loving my long distance babies.... ❤
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