Athalia

Hey stop overthinking okayy...! Yaar tu kitna sochti hai..! You are overthinking and you need to stop that..! If these types of statements you have heard from others or by your own...so this blog is just for you. 'too busy, feeling, feelings and overthinking about it'  This is the motto of our youth now. OVERTHINKING: With or without reason just thinking continuously over a particular thing. Thinking about something either too much or too long or both that is called overthinking. Our generation is use to of overthinking. Some of them are pro in overthinking that they even overthink their overthinking. You know what, sometimes the worst place you can be is in your own head.  Now, how to avoid it? A research says that we bring about 70,000 thoughts in a day. And if we are an overthinkers than we bring about 7 lakhs thoughts a day..just kidding...balki ussey bhi zyada hota hai. Now the question is whether those thoughts are good or bad, helpful or not, came to make us feel good or

 Relationship and Virginity Wait!wait!wait!...If your mentallity isn’t beyond 18, then yes this one is for you.  Is sex the ultimate solution to love? NO, I mean some people say, “pyaar ko prove karna hai toh karna padega, agar tu mere saath sex karegi tabhi main maanunga ki tu mujhse pyaar karti hai.” Pyaar ko prove karna matlab kya? Here, if a boy talks only about having sex or asking you to have sex, then it's ok...because it's all about physical needs of a human being but when it comes to having sex to prove love, then keep a distance away from your partner, he is emotionally blackmailing you. If your partner wants to have sex to take the relationship forward, then keep these things in your mind.... 1. Is that the right person?  2. How much time elapsed in relationship and how its been? 3. Does that person talk about unprotected sex? 4. And many more concerns….especially concent. I feel that if you want to complete your physical needs with your partner than make sure to com

  R ise in films has given us various definition of love; some says love is life, some say love is friendship whereas some say love is passion. It’s unreal how complex have they made the true definition of love. So, let's make some things easy, let's love.... Love, relieved in the name only, is a peace that draws you from the noise of the whole world and leads you towards immense peace. But what actually love is? When someone means to you so much that even if you look at someone else considering it a crime, that is love. When while looking into someone's eyes, you start seeing yourself, that is love. While spending time with someone, time wishes to stand still, that is love. The one you cannot define, but they both define and find you, that is love. Looking back at the 90's, this was love, it used to happen this way even after all the restrictions at that time the society had. Afterall, it used to happen in a way that one’s whole life would be lost in the arms of the ot

INDIA, the best example of  "Unity in Diversity". In our total population of 1,395.57 million's, we see so many colors,  religion, ethics etc. But the only thing which is common in this diversity is the struggle for the freedom of girls. No doubt in India a girl or women have to almost fight a war with her society as well as with her family to breathe in the open air of freedom. I think they didn't even have the rights to explore themselves. If they do so they use to be tagged by some common taglines- #lavander,#bitch I just heard from our old generation that we Indians have a huge love, respect for their family relations that's why they protect the daughters, sisters of their household from the evil world. But what when family members themselves hiding their evil side in the name of #respectfamily? Let's have a look at this too- 20/October/2020: A 48-year-old man was arrested for raping his 36-year-old sister on several occasions in the last 16 years. 28/June